Vibrolator® ABU Ball Vibrator

Organic water and oil based lubricants are suitable for use with glass, metal, and silicone sex toys – they also nourish the skin, alleviating any vaginal dryness or discomfort from vaginal tightness. This elegant metal toy has a lot to offer for both cis and trans guys, says Richards. “For myself and my other vulva-having partners, curved metal wand toys are almost universally a guaranteed orgasm,” he says.

It comes with several attachments and is endorsed by Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer (Eroscillator, starts at $109). Until the 20th century, American and European men, including physicians, believed that women did not experience sexual desire or pleasure. They believed that women were simply fleshy receptacles for male lust and that intercourse culminating in male ejaculation fulfilled women’s erotic needs. Women were socialized to believe that “ladies” had no sex drive, and that duty required them to put up with sex in order to keep their husbands happy and have children. Flexible external arms may also allow you to thrust the toy in and out without it losing contact with your clit.

Considering it doubles as a necklace, that makes it even more special and something everyone should have if you wear jewelry. In other words, I just gave you a hot tip for what to get your favorite people on their birthday. Or, if you want to be romantic about it, Valentine’s Day is an ideal occasion to give this vibrator to someone you love. This can be a great technique for anyone who has a sensitive clitoris or body parts that can’t handle too much stimulation. Granted, my original Vesper is 10 years old at this point, so I imagine some of the magic has been lost, but using them both back-to-back (it’s called due diligence!) , the Vesper 2 is significantly stronger. Thanks to its shape, it’s perfect for precise stimulation of not only the clitoris, but also nipples, perineum, frenulum, or other specific external spots on the body that love a good buzz.

“Bullet vibes are small and discreet and as such, perfect for traveling,” says Rebecca Alvarez Story, a sexologist and the CEO and co-founder of Bloomi. For people with vaginas, rabbit vibes are versatile, dual-stimulation toys that combine the external pleasures of a clitoral vibrator with the internal satisfaction of a vibrating dildo, adding additional G-spot satisfaction. Feel good and do good with this eco-friendly tool from ‘It’ sex toy brand Love Not War, which is made from locally sourced sustainable materials in a green-powered factory. It’s surprisingly dinky for a wand vibrators, so you can take it on holiday, yet it still has plenty of ‘oomph’, delivering deep, rumbling vibrations thanks to four intensity levels and vibration patterns.

Designed to rest between your fingers, it will help deliver vibrations every time you touch it. It also has two strong motors that bounce vibrations off of each other, helping to enhance any sexual experience, according to the brand. If you’re looking for a vibrating stroker, this one has 14 rhythmic vibration patterns. While reviewers say it isn’t their quietest toy, they said it’s quiet enough. While we develop the testing protocols in-house, we also rely heavily on our at-home testing panel to review sex toys.